Masturbating before sex helps you last longer in bed

Want To Masturbate Before Sex? READ THIS!


If you want to last longer in bed, then you can masturbate before sex. It works like a charm for most guys… BUT NOT FOR EVERYONE!

Now let’s take a closer look…

Should you masturbate before sex?

Masturbating before sex is the most commonly suggested technique. And with a good reason…

It works very well.

If you’re having erection problems than you shouldn’t do it at all. Because you may not be able yo get it up again when the time comes. If don’t have erection problems, keep reading.

You can do it on your own. She doesn’t need to know anything. It doesn’t cost anything. All you need is couple of minutes of privacy, and you’re ready to go.

The idea here is that you’ll need significantly more time to reach the second orgasm (during sex), than in took you to reach the fist one (during masturbation).

This happens because after you ejaculate, you go into a so called “refractory phase” in which the erection loses its strength and your penis becomes temporarily insensitive to stimulation.

After a while, you’re penis will again become sensitive to stimulation. And you’ll again have a strong erection. Only this time it’ll take you more time to reach the orgasm.

How long before sex should you masturbate?

Generally speaking, you should do it 1 or 2 hours before sex. But this is individual. You need to find your own time.

How long will you last during sex?

You can expect to last anywhere from 2 to 5 times longer (about 5-15 minutes, for most guys.)

But, this is individual and depends on several factors.

First of all, it depends on your timing. Most guys find that masturbating one or two hours before sex is optimal timing for them. However, you need to find out your own timing. Younger guys may masturbate and be ready for the second round in as little as 10 minutes.

Secondly, it depends on your age. As a rule, the older you get, the more downtime you’ll need between erections.

And finally, it depends on how exciting the sex is. If you didn’t have sex for a long time, you’re all amped up, and she’s hot  you’ll certainly come a bit faster.

My experience with masturbating before sex

When I was a horny teen, one afternoon I went with my friend in red district.

We picked up two ladies, and a few moments later we ended up in a room with 2 beds. Each bed was against the opposite wall, and between them there was a coffee table and some magazines on it.

We got down to business right away. I doggy styled my lady and… I don’t know, maybe 2 minutes later I came. I was done.

I looked at my friend and he was still thrusting vigorously, although he started before me. He looked at me smiling and asked “What?! Done already?”… “Yeap…” I smiled back, deeply embarrassed.

I went out in a bar across the street. I was going to wait him there. He finished about 30 minutes later.

On our way home, he noticed that I was still embarrassed. Than he said to me “Look man, take it easy. It’s not a big deal. I would probably come twice faster than you if I hadn’t prepared myself.”

“You prepared yourself?” I asked expecting more information… “Yeah,” he continued “I jerked off like half an hour before I went out.”

Later on, I tried it myself and it worked like a charm.

One more thing…

Don’t overdo it

If you masturbate immediately before sex, you may have troubles getting it up when you really need it. This is true especially as you get older.

Here’s how to pinpoint your own time…

Next time you masturbate, do it again 1 hour after that and see how much longer it will take you to come. If it’s still to fast, next time try doing it 30 minutes later. If you have troubles getting it up fast enough, try doing it 2 hours after initial masturbation.

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25 comments

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by Roberto Perez on March 6, 2012 at 11:38 pm. Reply #

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by Frank DeLuca on March 10, 2012 at 5:45 pm. Reply #

Just came across this randomly after doing a google search.

You’re spot on! I’ve long recommended the “pre-nut” to my friends. Especially if you havent’ had sex in over a week and you aren’t using a condom (which i hate using), you will cum really fast.

Before I go out clubbing I always prenut. And before every date, I do as well. It helps clear your mind. If the girl is really hot, I will cum way too fast, like 15 min or less. But after I prenut, I literally can go as LONG as I want to without cumming. And I’m no superman either. I can’t recharge that quickly; it usually takes me an hour or longer.

by Andrew on November 28, 2012 at 11:58 am. Reply #

Thanks for taking time to comment, and welcome aboard.

by Frank DeLuca on November 28, 2012 at 8:31 pm. Reply #

Hi there! This article couldn’t be written much better! Looking through this post reminds me of my previous roommate! He constantly kept talking about this. I’ll forward this post to him. Fairly certain he’ll have a good read. Thank you for sharing!

by Giovanni Contrell on February 21, 2013 at 8:21 pm. Reply #

Low sperm count is only that a lower count of sperm (estimated) per militer of semen prduecod.It will help if your boyfriend will stop masturbating for at least a week before you have sex. No over the counter treatments exist that are worth spending money on. The only real consideration is the above mentioned Masturbation and your ablility to care for a child.

by Thanura on February 20, 2016 at 8:42 pm. Reply #

Cool blog . chers for posting us.

by Jean Buhite on February 24, 2013 at 12:05 am. Reply #

this is what I was missing…

by johannes on October 6, 2014 at 9:42 pm. Reply #

I’ll add to this…If you want to pleasure your girl or guy more than you can with “pre nut” alone do the following…Jack off with Almond oil or veggie oil if you have an allergy. And be rough on yourself and dont let up. If you do this right and it might take awhile to do, Your penis will swell up. In the process of doing this you will want to ” pre nut” at least 2 or more times. Grab a shower or wear a condom to avoid a yeast infection. Nothing like lasting more than half an hour at almost twice your thickness. Warning though this does not work on all guys. Some will end up with just a big swollen dong without being able to use it. Try it out before you decided to wing it on the first try.

by Swollen Dong on October 15, 2014 at 11:42 pm. Reply #

Hey guys, Thanks for sharing… At first I was concerned but I KINDA feel better. So, my bf and I have been dating on and off for about 5 years now, broke up for the last 2years and now we are back 3 months into it. I’ve noticed recently that my bf takes a super long “dump” or shower every afternoon after work or at night before bed…. Then takes a nap. He masturbates… Every single day. He’s 27 I’m 28 he’s only been with me and someone else, in a serious relationship and intimate(or so he says)
Once I was going to surprise him by sneaking into the shower with him but I noticed he was already helping himself out after he had been getting me all excited a few minutes before that… I quickly got out of the shower a bit upset, I thought that maybe he was just more into his porn or fantasy than me. I’m gonna be straight up… I’m a bit of a freak and I will and do try to make all his fantasies come true( I love sex and it gets me even more excited and amped watching him want me)So at first I was upset because I thought that maybe I wasn’t “enough” for him or if there were other reasons or factors playing in. See… From a girl point of view or how I’m feeling now, I’d rather him fuck me the first time around even if its just 5 mins then ride that again…
I’ve noticed a difference when he masturbates vs not masturbating prior to sex, at first he’s all rowdy, grabbing me, playful and rough, then he goes and masturbates comes out like nothing, like I’m indifferent, we still have unbelievable sex but its not the same. I want him to fuck me when he’s heated, rowdy and rough not when he’s ready for a mission. I’ve tried telling him this but he gets upset about it and just says “it helps me last longer, its not all about you, you know” so, not sure if I should try to understand him or if this will affect this relationship later on, its the first time this happens to me and I’m not really sure how to deal with this. Thanks for reading, I hope all works out. Peace.

by The Masturbator dilemma on November 26, 2014 at 7:51 pm. Reply #

Thanks for sharing your perspective. Appreciate it.

by Frank DeLuca on November 30, 2014 at 10:32 pm. Reply #

Well done arctile that. I’ll make sure to use it wisely.

by Jobeth on June 6, 2016 at 11:48 pm. Reply #

realy great post…BRAVO!

by fiely wonder on July 19, 2015 at 6:13 pm. Reply #

You write so hosently about this. Thanks for sharing!

by Irene on June 7, 2016 at 12:57 am. Reply #

My dick is huge and I love fucking

by Tony on August 7, 2015 at 2:28 am. Reply #

Taking the overivew, this post is first class

by Keli on June 7, 2016 at 12:02 am. Reply #

I like to fuck but lately I cum too quick.. I use to be a 30 min guy. But now I’m down to like a 10 .

by Anonymous on September 14, 2015 at 5:54 am. Reply #

A perfect reply! Thanks for taking the treoblu.

by Pepper on June 7, 2016 at 12:59 am. Reply #

I’ve always been the type of girl to out last her man. Then I was with this younger guy and was having real trouble keeping up with him. Then one night I surprised him coming out of the shower and caught him masturbating. He said all the guys do that to last longer. Now I know why!!!

by Vicki on January 3, 2016 at 7:48 pm. Reply #

Considering your economic siutation, do you really want to have children right now? Especially living apart? He can stop masturbating for a while before you have sex and that should help a bit. I don’t think there is any other solution unless you elect expensive fertility treatments.

by Venkat on February 20, 2016 at 8:57 pm. Reply #

Tnx 4 da info I’ll try it

by Anonymous on February 21, 2016 at 9:50 pm. Reply #

Son of a gun, this is so heullfp!

by Madge on June 7, 2016 at 12:19 am. Reply #

I just cam

by Johnson on June 7, 2016 at 11:15 pm. Reply #

better to save it up for a day or two, masturbate but dont cum, then go on date very horny and you will probably give her a really good load quite quickly, but then you can have a second time round after half an hour or so which is softer, slower and longer. Best of both worlds

by jacko on June 12, 2016 at 10:37 pm. Reply #

Oohky now I know why

by Anonymous on July 4, 2016 at 9:49 am. Reply #

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