How long you need to last in bed to please a woman

How Long Should You Last In Bed?

The truth is, no one can put an exact time on how long should “normal” sex last.

Some say, even if you ejaculate after only 5 seconds, and if you and your partner are happy with that, premature ejaculation is not a problem at all.

That’s why you should see coping with PE as a sexual improvement project, not as a treatment of some kind of disorder.

The only exception to this rule would be extremely severe cases of PE. Cases where ejaculation almost always happens before the penetration. Which makes natural impregnation very difficult, or even impossible.

However, sex has another function… the sheer pleasure of the act. The happiness and intimacy that brings in a relationship.

Over 70% of men admit they could use better endurance – and we’re not talking about treadmills.

So… how long do you really need to last?

Here are some interesting statistics…

Back in 1948, the pioneering sex researcher, Alfred Kinsey, reported that average man can last for only about 2 minutes. Kinsey and his associates came to this number after interviews with some 18,000 men and women.

In 2006, at the Congress of the European Society for Sexual Medicine, an American research paper reported the following:

The average lasting time for a man with PE was 1.8 minutes
‘Normal’ man on average lasted for about 7.3 minutes

At the same Congress, Doctor Waldinger, presented the results of a study based on 491 men from five different countries (Netherlands, Spain, United Kingdom, and United States).

He discovered the this:

  • On average men could last 5.4 minutes
  • 0.5% of men last less than 60 seconds
  • 2.5% of men last less than 90 seconds

Another report revealed that, for the average Canadian couple, the sex last between 4 and 7 minutes.

Cosmo readers survey said that the average guy lasts for about 10 to 15 minutes.

Based on those studies above, we can say that, on average, men can last for about 2-15 minutes. However those “average” numbers sometimes can be misleading.

For example in Doctor Waldinger’s study, although the average lasting time was 5.4 minutes, some men could last only 35 seconds, while others could go for over 44 minutes.

Also, in many studies, some men who claimed to have premature ejaculation could last up to 25 minutes.

Dr David Delvin (GP and family planning specialist) and Christine Webber (psychotherapist) say that from their own clinical experience, there are plenty of couples feel that any ejaculation in under 10 minutes or so is definitely premature.

As you can see different people have very different ideas about what is “normal”.
Maybe the better question is how long does it take for a woman to reach an orgasm?

According to many studies done so far, the average time to climax for a woman varies, but ranges between 12 to 25 minutes.

The answer is 12-25 minutes. That’s how much woman needs to reach an orgasm.

That being said, many perfectly normal women (as much as 60-70% of them) cannot reach an orgasm through penetration alone at all. So even if you could go all night, you’d only make her sore.

Nonetheless, it is important to know that these women still do enjoy penetration. Even if they can’t reach an orgasm this way. Even if you worked hard to develop your oral skills to compensate, they still would want intercourse.

So, it’s important to last longer if you want to be able to please a woman sexually. One thing that can help you last longer is thinking about something else while having sex.

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by Shawntae on January 31, 2013 at 6:16 pm. Reply #

When looking at how to delay ejaculation, be aware that the more pressure men will feel during sex, the more they are likely to suffer from premature ejaculation.

by Tony Joseph on April 24, 2013 at 2:54 pm. Reply #


Lasting longer in bed requires physical and mental training, it’s easy if you know how to do it.
I’m sure that you will find the solution you’re searching Solve your problems and success in your sexual life!!

by juanan on June 5, 2013 at 12:51 am. Reply #

Lasting longer in bed requires physical and mental training.

by purplstallion on November 7, 2013 at 5:22 pm. Reply #

The best way for a guy to last longer before ejaculating during sex is for a guy to masturbate before sex.i have been doing this for years i can go for hours before ejaculating.

by Christian on June 30, 2015 at 12:35 am. Reply #

Once u feel the urge to cum coming close, stop and change positions
A 10 second break could add 2-3 more minutes so do this 2-3 times
So let’s say u start in missionary
After about 3-5 mins u start feeling ur orgasm coming soon
Stop and pull out ur dick
Get on ur back and have her ride u
Now u just bought yourself a few extra minutes
Once the urge comes close again, stop and take her off u and start doing doggy style
Again this will give a couple more minutes
It’s important not to wait too long before stopping and changing positions otherwise u could cum while ur moving into the next position
Mix it up when it comes to what positions u fuck in and don’t become too predictable
Using this method I usually last 10-15 minutes

by Prof Dingleberry on August 21, 2015 at 7:10 pm. Reply #

When you stop to last longer the woman loses hers too, it will take her that must longer to get close again. Stopping and starting to last a few extra mins still isn’t gonna get it, you guy’s have got to figure out.

by Brandy on August 11, 2017 at 8:17 pm. Reply #

Not necessarily. You can still use your fingers and mouth to stimulate her while you’re on pause.

by Frank DeLuca on August 12, 2017 at 6:02 am. Reply #

my wife :-) hates me cuz it takes me an hour or better on average. I have premature on occasion.

by kit combat on August 30, 2015 at 3:07 am. Reply #

Why does everyone go through this self doubt crap. I just use Promescent and it makes me last a hell of a lot longer.

by August thompson on July 11, 2017 at 6:00 pm. Reply #

Either PE or not..all bores down to both parties satisfaction, once there is mutual satisfaction the time used is definitely insignificant .

by oladapo on May 4, 2018 at 2:41 pm. Reply #

If you give her a thumping in the rear first you’ll last night longer

by Rockyddodd on August 7, 2018 at 3:35 am. Reply #

stuff her in the rear first tlk she moans then pound the cat

by Rockyddodd on August 7, 2018 at 3:38 am. Reply #

You are doing amazing work! Thanks for sharing your wonderful tips. I’ve always been quick in bed. I’ve done my kegels, practised slow masturbation and all the other techniques suggested with zero effect really. So out of desperation I procured some Dapoxetine and it’s been a very interesting experience for me. I last longer on it without a doubt 😀 – note that it does not anaesthetise one’s penis or deaden sensation, but it just gives you ‘breathing space’ – for a life long rapid ejaculator to be able to experience penetration for longer periods without constantly trying to hold back is pretty amazing. You may or may not already know How to get it fast and easy. If you dont, the easiest thing to do is just search on Google for the keyword * DAP247TAP * ❤️. I’ve just found that they have popular ed meds with Dapoxetine 👍. That’s amazing. Hope this helps!

by Brendiii on August 6, 2019 at 10:02 pm. Reply #

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